'Darling, you must understand that their sense of humour and their lifestyle are different and I don't think it will suit you.' These were the constant reminder of her grandmother. Lady Fermoy, before she married into the royal family. Indeed, it was really true. Princess Diana had a hard time fitting in with the royal family because of their strict conformity to rules. As an outsider, it was really hard to take in centuries of traditions. It seemed like the Princess was trapped inside a white castle. She tried in vain to please them, especially her husband, but to no avail. She never received a pleasant remark from all of them. Her self-esteem was at an all time low during her stay with them. It was really a shocking revelation since the public views the House of Windsor as the "perfect family".